that's a lot of sperm isn't it so you're
那是很多精子，不是吗，所以你把
putting all of that inside you I guess
所有这些都放进你体内我想这
that's like kind of small penis size you
就像阴茎尺寸很小你
have 160 children someone's going to
有160个孩子有人会
come after you most are in the United
追杀你大多数在
States Argentina Australia everywhere
美国阿根廷澳大利亚到处都是
that's crazy no swimmer left behind I
疯狂的不 留下的游泳运动员我
want to find each of them a good home we
想为他们每个人找到一个好家，我们
have a natural insemination which would
有一个自然授精，这
basically be sexual intercourse do you
基本上就是性交，你
do it cuz you just like having sex with
会这样做吗，因为你只是喜欢
random people
in this episode of Life uncovered I'm
在这一集《生活揭秘》中与随机的人发生性关系，我正在与
meeting spam donor Joe who fathered over
垃圾邮件捐赠者乔见面 乔是
160 children well there are people that
160 多个孩子的父亲，有人
say that that in itself is irresponsible
说这本身就是不负责任的
Joe travels the world impregnating women
乔环游世界，
by donating his spam artificially but
通过人为地捐赠垃圾邮件使女性怀孕，但
also controversially he visits women and
也有争议的是，他拜访女性并与
has actual sex with them insisting the
她们发生真正的性关系，坚持认为
old-fashioned method is most effective
老式方法是最有效的。
he claims to have donated his spam to
声称已将他的垃圾邮件捐赠给了
over 800
超过 800 名
women I'm traveling to meet Joe at home
女性 我正要去见乔，
where he's created his very own spam
他在那里创建了自己的垃圾邮件
Factory his days are usually spent
工厂 他的日常工作通常是
ejaculating into a cup packaging it open
把精液射进杯子里，然后
to a syringe and shipping his samples to
用注射器包装，然后将样品运送到
wannabe mums across the
各地想要成为妈妈的妈妈们
world hello Joe how you doing I'm good
世界你好乔你好吗我很好
how you doing nice to meet you what do
你做得很好很高兴见到你他们
they call these chairs again is it a sha
又把这些椅子称为什么是
long a yeah I could sit here and imagine
沙龙是的我可以坐在这里想象
I'm I'm Freud you know you caught me
我是我是弗洛伊德你知道你抓住了我
right in the middle preparing a shipment
就在中间准备一批货物，
so you have my little uh lab here one
所以你有我的小呃实验室，这
are these things
是这些东西，
well this is uh Bruna she's in Argentina
这是呃布鲁娜，她在阿根廷，
so where have you got kids most are in
所以你有孩子，大多数在
the United States and then I've I've got
美国，然后我有
a bunch in Argentina a bunch in
一堆 在阿根廷，有一群在
Australia and uh of course the UK and
澳大利亚，当然还有英国和
Finland China uh everywhere you know
芬兰，中国，呃，到处都是，你知道
that is nuts isn't that's crazy so like
这很疯狂，这不是很疯狂吗？就像
these kids were they conceived naturally
这些孩子一样，他们是自然受孕的
or artificially like natural and natural
还是人工受孕的，自然的，自然的
means literally you have sexual
意思是，你可以通过
intercourse to make a baby yeah could be
性交来制造一个孩子。 宝贝，是的，可能有
a number of different ways some people
很多不同的方式，有些人
might have a partner so they don't want
可能有一个伴侣，所以他们不想
to
kiss because that's very intimate how
接吻，因为这是非常亲密的，
much do you do it cuz you just like
你会做多少，因为你只是喜欢
having sex with random people if I
和随机的人做爱，如果我
actually wanted to have sex every day a
真的想每天都做爱 建立
a relationship might be a better idea do
关系可能是一个更好的主意，
you enjoy those
你喜欢这些
experiences yeah you know it's a very
经历吗是的，你知道这是非常
meaningful it's almost like having like
有意义的，这几乎就像
uh you know a hundred different lives
呃你知道一百种不同的生活
you know
你知道
having seen the mechanics of Joe's
看到乔的
business and action I joined him as he
生意和行动的机制当他去的时候我加入了他
went to see one of his daughters who
看到他
lives nearby I was intrigued to see what
住在附近的一个女儿，我很想知道
kind of role he plays in a life so how
他在生活中扮演什么样的角色，那么他是如何
did come into the world yeah it was
来到这个世界的，是的，这很
natural okay do you feel like I suppose
自然，好吧，你觉得我认为是
her father yeah I am her father you
她的父亲是的，我是她的父亲，你
don't have as intimate of a connection
不觉得
to a lot of them I guess no maybe not
我想，不，也许不是，其中的某些
there's elements of it that do feel like
元素确实感觉像是
a kind of conventional relationship you
一种传统的关系，你
don't have to do all the chores is that
不必做所有的家务，这就是它
what it appeals to you about it that you
吸引你的地方 你
can be a free man I just enjoy seeing my
可以成为一个自由的人，我只是喜欢看到我的
child the reality is you you are just
孩子，现实是你，你只是在
coming in and out of their life you're
他们的生活中进进出出，你
not a conventional father you have 160
不是一个传统的父亲，你有160个
kids it's impossible some fathers don't
孩子，有些父亲根本看不到他们的孩子，这是不可能的
see their children at all what you think
你认为等
you'll tell her when she grows I'll tell
她长大后你会告诉她我会告诉
her everything I've had the conversation
她我和
with some other people already you know
其他一些人交谈过的一切你已经知道
like I've told them about their you know
就像我告诉他们他们的
brothers and sisters they don't consider
兄弟姐妹他们不认为
it to be unusual it's not a normal
这是 不寻常的是，
scenario to have so many siblings
有这么多兄弟姐妹
scattered around the world it's not
分散在世界各地，这不是一个正常的情况，这并不
common the internet makes all these
常见，互联网使所有这些
things possible which were never
事情成为可能，这在以前是
possible
不可能的，
before again
again I've just stepped out for a second
我刚刚出去了一秒钟，
and this is fascinating you know Joe's
这很有趣，你知道乔就
in there with one of his daughters kind
在那里 他的一个女儿的
of acting like the dad and obviously
行为有点像父亲，显然从
biologically is but in reality he's not
生物学上来说是这样，但实际上他并不在
there doing the daily tasks he's not
那里做日常工作，他没有
raising the kid and as the child grows
抚养孩子，随着孩子
up and he has even more children what's
长大，他还有更多的孩子，
going to happen you know is he going to
你知道会发生什么，他是 要
be involved in their life then how's he
参与他们的生活，那么他要如何向
going to explain all of this to them
他们解释这一切，
it's difficult you know and it's hard
你知道，这对我来说很难处理，
for me to
process so how many kids tricking you've
所以这里有多少孩子在欺骗你，
got around
here uh I've I've got one in spinny
呃，我有一个 旋转
Moore and then uh here and then
摩尔，然后呃这里，然后
Darlington are you worried cuz obviously
达林顿，你担心吗，因为显然
we're in one central location now
我们在一个中心位置，现在你有
there's multiple of your children about
多个孩子，
the risk is definitely there that that
风险肯定存在，
two of your kids might not know each
你的两个孩子可能不认识
other and then it's the same risk that
对方，然后这是相同的风险
everyone faces because you're not
每个人都面临着这个问题，因为你不需要
required to uh put a father on a birth
呃把父亲写在出生
certificate I guess it's not it's not
证明上，我想这不是
the same level of risk though it because
同样的风险水平，因为
not everyone's having 160 kids if two
如果两个
children were to accidentally meet two
孩子不小心遇到了两个
half siblings and have a child there's
同父异母的兄弟姐妹，并且有一个孩子，那么并不是每个人都会有160个孩子。 孩子，
not a medical risk but are you saying
不存在医疗风险，但是你说
it's okay if two of your kids me I'm
如果你的两个孩子是我的话没关系吗？我是
saying it's not a medical risk what it
说这不是医疗风险，它
is is uh it's a a social risk it's a t
是什么，呃，这是一种社会风险，这
well there will be some kind of medical
很好，会有某种医疗
risk but I guess why are you arguing
风险，但我想 你为什么要争辩说，这
that so much like the there's not really
much benefit for two your I'm saying
对两个人来说并没有多大好处，我是说，
there's have sex with each other I'm
彼此发生性关系，我是
saying there's no medical risk there's a
说，没有医疗风险，有
reputation risk and there's a a shame
声誉风险，而且很遗憾，
why is it that you're fighting that
为什么你要这样做？
aspect of it I'm not fighting it and
我不是在对抗它，也不是
saying it's not a problem I'm saying
说这不是问题，我是说，从
that statistically it's unlikely to
统计数据来看，这不太可能
happen there's no cases of this
发生，没有发生这种情况的案例，
happening cuz I have many children and I
因为我有很多孩子，我
don't want them to be afraid of
不想让他们害怕
this what is it that is making you want
这个 是什么让你想要
all these kids so I got married very
所有这些孩子，所以我很
young and had children and then uh of
早就结婚了，有了孩子，然后呃，
course there's some limits and I wanted
当然有一些限制，我想要
to have more children it's just a
更多的孩子，这只是一种
natural urge I just perhaps feel it more
自然的冲动，我可能
strongly than others why do you look at
比其他人感觉更强烈，为什么 你仔细看看吗？
this well I Look to to check that the
我想检查一下
shipping methods effective can you see
运输方式是否有效，你能看到
movement there we go go look at them W
那里的动静吗？我们去看看他们，那里
there's a lot of swimmers so you've
有很多游泳者，所以你
currently got about 160 kids yeah yeah
目前有大约 160 个孩子是的，是
yeah what's the ambition what trying to
的，我们的雄心是什么，正在尝试什么？
what number are you trying I don't have
你想要达到什么数字，我
a specific number in mind for me at
心里没有一个具体的数字，
least it's like uh being hungry or
至少这就像呃饿了或者你
something well you have like a basic
有什么好东西，比如你有一个基本的
desire to reproduce exactly is it like
繁殖欲望，就像
money making no this is not the path to
赚钱一样，不，这不是致富之路
riches so the money effectively is is
所以钱实际上
just expenses for travel and stuff is
只是旅行费用和事情就是
that kind of how it works exactly do you
这样的，它到底是如何运作的，你
have to sacrifice a lot I I think I'm
必须牺牲很多吗？我想我
living my best life you
过着最好的生活，你
know I still don't get really why he's
知道我仍然不明白他为什么
doing it I asked him that he just says
这样做我 问他，他只是说
he's got this kind of innate desire to
他有这种天生的
have kids but there's clearly something
想要孩子的愿望，但显然还有
more to it and that's what I need to
更多的事情，这就是我需要
find out hello Joe what's happening
了解的，你好，乔，
today I'm going to go see a uh a young
今天发生了什么，我要去见一个呃，一个年轻
woman here in bath who wants to have
女子。 巴斯谁想要
another child so this is a um a physical
另一个孩子，所以这是一个嗯，物理
insemination yeah yeah we we would say
授精是的，我们会说
natural so it's more uh kissing that
自然，所以更多的是呃接吻之
type of thing and you've been what
类的事情，你就是你
you've been meeting here each night each
每天晚上在这里遇到的人，是的，
day yeah having sex making a baby
做爱 生孩子
exactly is she paying you no typically
到底是她付钱给你不，通常
people don't pay they just reimburse
人们不付钱，他们只是报销
expenses but in this case is she paying
费用，但在这种情况下，她是
for like your travel here no she's not
像你在这里旅行一样付钱吗？不，她不是，
she's not paying for
她不付
anything so why are you doing
任何费用，所以你为什么要这样做
it oh because you like sex is that why
哦，因为你喜欢性 这就是为什么
it's not really about sex it's a
这并不是真正与性有关的原因，这是一个
uh it's a fun time to travel and uh
呃，这是一个旅行的有趣时光，呃，
she's a very Charming young woman you
她是一个非常迷人的年轻女子，你
know why would I say no do you have some
知道为什么我会说不，你
feeling for head yeah I would say
对头部有感觉吗，是的，我会说
there's some feelings yeah I I I think
有一些感觉，是的，我我
like the the more time you spend the
想像 你花的时间越多，
more personal it becomes is that why you
它就变得越个人化，这就是你为什么
do aspects of it I mean are you hoping
要做这件事的原因，我的意思是你希望有
you'll find love one day through this I
一天你能通过这件事找到爱情吗？我
I find it a meaningful way to live my
发现这是一种有意义的
life how do you prepare when you're
生活方式，当你 我
about to do a kind of natural
要做一种自然
insemination I brush my teeth and shave
授精 我刷牙、刮胡子
and do things like that are you like
诸如此类
taking her for dinner and paying for
dinner and trying to sweet talk her like
I should call you and get some advice
cuz all the things you have described
你所描述的
are very good ideas cuz it sounds
都是非常好的想法，因为从
properly awkward really at the most
最基本
basic level you you're just going to
的层面来说，这听起来确实很尴尬，你只需
spend a little bit of time with someone
花一点时间和某人在一起，稍微
to get to know them a little bit how
了解一下他们，
many times are you having sex perhaps
你有多少次性行为，也许
once once okay yeah yeah it's difficult
一次 一次好吧是的，很难
to just jump in
跳入
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cold so I'm standing at the side of a
寒冷，所以我站在
road waiting for Joe to kind of do his
路边等待乔做他的
deed which is obviously strange
事，这显然是奇怪的
experience hi how you doing Joe what's
经历嗨，你怎么做乔怎么了
up Ben not sure if you want to shake
本不确定是否 你想握
that
那只
hand so how is that hopefully mission
手，那么希望任务
accomplished did you get the sense that
完成了吗？你是否感觉到
she um like that she fancied you uh yeah
她嗯喜欢你，嗯是的，
I think I think uh maybe Mutual uh
我想我想嗯也许是相互的
feelings I I thought about spam donation
感觉我认为垃圾邮件捐赠是一种非常
as like kind of quite an impersonal
客观的
thing but yours kind of seems to be a
事情 但你的经历似乎有点
bit more like a a boyfriend experience
像男朋友的经历，
uh it's a little bit more Nuance how
呃，有一点细微差别，
much of this do you think is you I
你认为这有多少是你的，我
suppose wanting a relationship but
想想要一段关系，但
without the commitment I I don't know if
没有承诺，我不知道是否
there's exactly no baggage like if you
真的没有像这样的包袱 如果你
have a child there's there's always you
有一个孩子，那么你总是
know things come up have you ever been
知道会发生一些事情，你是否曾经
in love yeah I'm I'm like in my 50s cuz
恋爱过是的，我就像 50 多岁，因为
there's aspects of your life I guess
你生活的某些方面，我想
that feels like a lonely existence yeah
这感觉像是一种孤独的存在是的，我想
I guess so how did you leave it when you
所以是怎么回事 你离开时就留下它，
left like what did you say oh yeah a big
就像你说的那样，哦，是的，一个大大的
kiss let me let me know what happens she
吻，让我知道会发生什么，她
wants to get pregnant right so I think
想怀孕，所以我认为
she is a little bit anxious about the
她对
test result I suppose maybe she just
测试结果有点焦虑，我想也许她只是
sees it purely as Stone Cold spam
单纯地看到它 因为冰冷的垃圾邮件
donation not as like a relationship do
捐赠不像一种关系，
you ever a worry about that there's a
你是否担心在
emotional bond that forms while you're
你试图怀孕时会形成一种情感纽带
trying to get
pregnant and uh once someone is pregnant
，呃一旦有人怀孕了，
then their their mind might turn back to
他们的思想可能会转向
you know other more immediate
你，知道其他更直接的事情
concerns so it it's hard to tell I would
担心所以很难说我会
say that I'm uh happy for it to go
说我很高兴它能以
either
任何
way part of me feels like Joe just wants
方式发展我的一部分感觉乔只是想
to have sex and create an army of
发生性行为并创建一支
minimes but that might be unfair he also
迷你大军但这可能不公平他也确实
does provide a service that's sexf free
提供了服务 那是免费的，
and seems to have a paternal Instinct
似乎有一种父亲的本能，
I'm in Wales and I'm meeting Joe donor
我在威尔士，我正在见乔捐助者，
this time he's doing an artificial
这次他正在做
insemination I think so he's going to
人工授精，我想他会
masturbate into a cup give it to them
在杯子里自慰，把它给他们，
and they'll do do what they need to do
他们会做什么 他们需要
with it what's going on I just made you
处理它 发生了什么事 我刚刚给你泡了
a cup of Joe if you'd like it nice Jo's
一杯乔 如果你喜欢的话 乔的
juice so what what's this oh I was just
果汁 那么这是什么 哦 我只是
preparing a a sample for today's meeting
为今天的会议准备一个样品
so today is a it's a artificial
所以今天是
insemination and what does that mean
人工授精 这是否意味着
well they're going to inject the uh the
他们将把呃
baby batter into their ho-ha we're going
婴儿面糊注射到他们的哈哈我们
to be delivering this one today is it in
今天要交付这个它在
there yeah it's in there what is it
那里是的它在那儿是什么它
well it's sperm it's just sper in a box
是精子它只是盒子里的精子
in a syringe yeah in a syringe so do you
在注射器里 是的 在注射器里 所以你会
do you ejaculate into the syringe no I
射精到注射器里 不 我
would have to use some other you know
得用其他你知道的
receptacle to uh to perhaps collect it
容器来呃收集它
and then uh so you you um [\h__\h] into
然后呃 所以你你嗯射进
this cup this is the cup of joe yeah how
这个杯子 这是乔的杯子 是的，
much are they paying you for this like
他们为此付给你多少钱，就像
they're just reimbursing the expenses
他们只是报销费用，
probably about you know 100 or so how
大概你知道 100 左右，
often are you doing this like how many
你多久这样做一次，比如
samples are you sending on a weekly
你每周发送多少样品，
basis some weeks might be one or two
有些星期可能是一两个
some weeks might be more is that what
星期 可能更多的是，
you're aiming for know you want as you
你的目标是知道你想要的，当你
look down the lineage of life you're
俯视生命的谱系时，你将
going to have 25% of the world's
拥有世界人口的 25%，
population I think the the largest
我认为最大的
proportion would probably go to jingus
比例可能会属于金古斯
Khan so it is about
汗，所以大约是
Legacy this feels like it finally boils
遗产这感觉就像它最终
down to it which is it's about you
归结为它是关于你
living past your life now it's
过去的生活现在它是
immortality I think that there is a urge
不朽的我认为
in in all all people perhaps and all all
所有人也许和所有
organisms to continue their line but but
有机体都有一种继续他们的路线的冲动但这
this is your version of the pyramids
是你的版本 金字塔
this is your way of leaving your impr
这是你留下
imprint well the the Pharaohs did have
印记的方式 法老确实有
their pyramids and this is all I have
他们的金字塔 这就是我所拥有的
I'm not going to go out and build
我不会出去
castles in the
在
sand tell me a bit about how you came
沙子里建造城堡 告诉我一些关于你是怎么来的
across Joe we came across Joe with the
遇到乔，我们在
Facebook sperm donation site and um Joe
Facebook 精子捐赠网站上遇到了乔，乔
popped up and sort of met everything
突然出现，满足了我们想要的一切，
that we were after really you know he
真的，你知道他
was quite friendly wasn't he and what
非常友好，不是吗？是什么
made you um I suppose what made you need
让你，嗯，我想是什么让你需要
a donor for this and instead of maybe
捐赠者 为此，也许真的不用
going to the private Clinic money really
去私人诊所钱，
and I know kind afford it's like a few
我知道可以负担得起，就像几个
grand a doll Joe's A1 a sample and the
大洋娃娃乔的A1样本和
sperm donation Clinic you're looking at
你正在看的精子捐赠诊所
you know a grand two grand I suppose the
你知道一个大两个大我想这
the shocking thing is that he's got like
令人震惊 问题是他有
170 kids how what kind of go through
170 个孩子，
your mind with that he's helped so many
他帮助了这么多
families which is which is just lovely
家庭，这真是太可爱了，
really do you want him to have any
你真的希望他
involvement in the child's life not at
参与孩子的生活吗？
all they are the the child's father what
他们根本不是孩子的生活。 父亲，如果
would you do if further down the line he
以后
he says he wants an involvement in the
他说他想要参与
kids's life it wouldn't be something
孩子们的生活，我们不会
that we would
be um open for one service he also
开放他也提供的一项服务，那
offers is natural insemination yeah you
就是自然授精，你会
seem shocked by that how come you're
怎么做是的，你似乎对此感到震惊，为什么呢？ 你
shocked about that I don't know I
对此感到震惊，我不知道，我
thought he just do like the samples not
以为他只是喜欢样品，但实际上并没有
actually go would you ever consider the
去，你会考虑
uh you know physical aspect natural I
呃，你知道物理方面是自然的，我
don't know if it increased the chances
不知道这是否增加了机会
and guaranteed that you know she got
并保证你知道她得到了
pregnant would you also be open to that
怀孕了，你也会对此持开放态度吗？是的，这是
yeah just it's F me because at the end
我的事，因为
of the day I just want a a child with
归根结底，我只想和杰克生一个孩子，
with Jake if you got to that point how
如果你到了那个地步，
would you do that you know would it be
你会怎么做，你知道这会是一次
quite a cold experience just kind of I
相当冷的经历吗？ 我
don't know really I I don't think I've
真的不知道，我想我还没有
really we've really thought about that
真正考虑过这个问题，
have we if it's the case that that
如果
nothing else works we might have to look
没有其他办法，我们可能不得不往下看，
down that
way so I've just stepped outside the
所以我刚刚走出了这个领域
Jake and Kate's house for a second and
杰克和凯特的房子一秒钟，
uh it's really interesting you know you
呃，这真的很有趣，你知道你
can see clearly how much they really
可以清楚地看到他们是多么
want a kid and how much this would mean
想要一个孩子，这对他们来说意味着什么，
to them but you know Kate's only just
但你知道凯特才刚刚
met Joe and the fact that she's
认识乔，事实上她
potentially willing to have actual sex
可能愿意拥有一个孩子
with him I suppose shows just how much
我想与他的实际性行为表明
this means to her and you know that
这对她来说意味着什么，你知道
she'll do whatever makes the most sense
她会做任何最有意义的事情，
but it's also really maky because if
但这也很容易，因为如果
they do that Joe is technically the dad
他们这样做，乔在技术上就是父亲，
he could technically have some custodial
他在技术上可以拥有一些
rights over the kid and it just feels
监护权 那孩子，感觉
like the kind of recipe for disaster but
就像是灾难的根源，但
you know all right I'm going to go back
你知道，好吧，我要回去了，
inside right I'm Jake nice to meet you
我是杰克，很高兴见到你，
Jake oh I have your uh your baby better
杰克哦，我有你，呃，你的孩子更好，非常
thank you very much now what's it like
感谢你，现在是什么 说实话，这就像
meeting Joe nerve-racking to be honest
见到乔一样让人伤脑筋，
it is yeah don't worry it it's it's
是的，不用担心，这是很
common to take a few Cycles there's
常见的，需要几个周期，
nothing to worry about so what what is
没有什么可担心的，所以
actually the process on your back I I
你背上的过程实际上是什么，我
would recommend you lay with your head
建议你低着头躺着 是的，
down yeah what you mean oh like on my
你的意思是，哦，就像在我的
like flat flat and and then uh we put a
平地上，然后呃，我们放一个
pillow should we open this in uh we put
枕头，我们应该打开这个吗，呃，我们放
a pillow I mean we're not actually
一个枕头，我的意思是，我们实际上并没有放你的
putting your spam no I know that I
垃圾邮件，不，我知道我
know so you're putting all of that
知道，所以你放了
inside you yeah I guess that's like kind
你体内的所有这些是的，我想这就像某种
of small penis size
小阴茎尺寸是的，
yeah against the wall this is this is
靠在墙上，这
like a proper ab exercise yeah all right
就像一个适当的腹肌练习是的，
well should we hand it over and okay
好吧，我们应该把它交给你，好吧，
Happ there we
哈普，我们
go how you feeling about this J yeah
看看你对这个的感觉如何，是的
feel good potentially another
感觉很好，可能又生了一个
baby yeah is this like a thing that
孩子，是的，这就像
you've done before where you you wait
你以前做过的事情，你在等待，而
while they do the process I have and in
他们正在做我所做的过程，在
some cases I've actually done it for
某些情况下，我实际上已经为
them do you need to come in
他们做了，你需要来
here how are you feeling now yeah fine
这里吗，你好吗 现在的感觉是的，很好，
yeah I'm hopeful we always so hopeful
是的，我希望我们总是充满希望，
aren't we afterwards so yeah it must it
不是我们之后所以是的，这一定
must be like a nerve rocking time yeah
是一个神经摇晃的时间，是的，
they call it the two we wait so you just
他们称之为“我们等待的两个时间”，所以你就
then got a wait the two two weeks two
需要等待两个两周
and a half weeks isn't it and then you
半周不是吗，然后你
can test then Joe's DNA is now trying to
可以测试然后乔的 DNA 现在正在尝试向上
his way
up what's that like I've had good luck
提升，就像我过去运气很好，
in the past so I'm uh it should continue
所以我呃应该继续，
do you guys have any Arrangement like
你们有什么安排吗？
any written agreement on like kind of
任何关于
what's going to going to be like going
未来将会发生什么的书面协议
forward
no it's just verbal isn't it yeah cuz is
不，这只是口头协议，不是吗，是的，因为这
that is that not a bit risky like is it
没有一点风险，就像
not just better to just write it out if
I were to make a
我要这样做的话，把它写出来不是更好吗？ 一份
contract and it says I want nothing to
合同，上面写着我不想
do with this child what would happen if
和这个孩子有任何关系，如果
the child read that one day but you have
孩子有一天读到了这个合同，会发生什么，但你也
had cases where people have tried to get
遇到过人们试图
child support payments from you a
从你那里获得子女抚养费的情况，
contract wouldn't stop that yeah like
合同不会阻止这种情况，是的，
none of us are lawyers so if we write a
没有一个是这样的。 我们是律师，所以如果我们写一份
contract it probably wouldn't really
合同，它可能不会真正
protect using the flip side though it
保护使用另一面，尽管它
gives clarity on what your expectations
清楚地说明了您的期望
are and it you know and that you know
是什么，并且您知道并且您知道
you're not going to be involved in the
您不会参与
child's life Jake's the father you know
孩子的生活杰克的 你认识的父亲，是的，
kind of yeah maybe yeah but I think the
也许是的，但我认为
verbal contract is is just as yeah
口头合同
exactly just as cemented for us you know
对我们来说是一样的，你知道，
um we is I think it's a lot about
嗯，我们是，我认为这与
trust all right so we've just finished
信任息息相关，所以我们一方面刚刚完成
on the one hand I can totally see why
我完全明白
they use Joe's Services you know it's so
他们为什么使用乔的服务，你知道它
much cheaper than a conventional spam
比传统的垃圾邮件
bank but at the the same time there's no
银行便宜得多，但同时没有
real agreement it felt uncomfortable to
真正的协议，
me that he's having sex with all these
他在非常接近的地区与所有这些不同的女人发生性关系，这让我感到不舒服
different women in areas that are very
close together where his future kids
他未来的孩子们
could quite easily meet each other at
可以很容易地在
school it feels like a public health
学校见面，这感觉像是一种公共健康
risk ultimately kids are going to be the
风险，最终孩子们将成为
ones that actually feel the impact of
真正感受到其影响的人，
that it felt like Joe chose to ignore a
感觉乔选择忽视
lot of the consequences of his actions
他行为的许多后果
maybe one day he'd have an army of kids
也许有一天，一群孩子会
tear up on his doorstep demanding
在他家门口撕扯，要求他
answers
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